1st Timothy 5:4

1 Do not say sharp words to one who has authority in the church, but let your talk be as to a father, and to the younger men as to brothers:

2 To the older women as to mothers, to the younger as to sisters, with a clean heart.

3 Give honour to widows who are truly widows.

4 But if any widow has children or children's children, let these see that it is right to take care of their family and their fathers and mothers: for this is pleasing in the eyes of God.

5 Now she who is truly a widow and without family puts her hope in God, giving herself to prayer day and night.

6 But she who gives herself to pleasure is dead while she is living.

7 Give orders to this effect, so that no evil may be said of anyone.