1st Timothy 3:11

8 Deacons, in the same way, are to be serious in their behaviour, not false in word, not given to taking much wine or greatly desiring the wealth of this world;

9 Keeping the secret of the faith in a heart free from sin.

10 And let these first be put to the test; then let them become Deacons if there is nothing against them.

11 Women are to be serious in behaviour, saying no evil of others, controlling themselves, true in all things.

12 Let Deacons be husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their houses well.

13 For those who have done good work as Deacons get for themselves a good position and become free from fear in the faith which is in Christ Jesus.

14 I am writing these things to you, though I am hoping to come to you before long;